My husband and I live in Georgia and have been married for 12 years. We have had custody of his kids and I have one child. We are a blended family. His son who is now 20 years old has moved back in with us against my will. We have Owned our home for 6 years. This son has been problems for about the last 5 years. He was put out before because of his refusal to work or follow house rules. Leaving and staying gone for days at a time. He stole all our electronics in the home and pawned them. He has stolen our vehicle for days at a time and just has been a pain in the rear. He was supposed to be repaying me for the stolen items, maintain a job, and enroll in school. He has been meeting girls on the internet and inviting them over and having sex in our home while we are at work. Throwing parties at the house while we were out of town. All my utilities bills have doubled since he has returned. He got fired from his job and has been pretending to go to work for the last 6-8 weeks. Got a letter from the school dropping him from his classes because he has attended. I told him to leave 2 days ago and my husband has let him move back in. Can I legally have him removed from the home even though my husband says he can live there? We are both joint owners of the home. Can I get a order of no trespassing brought gainst him? I can't take this anymore. I hate coming home and my husband and I don't get along because of it. Help!

I don't have a clue what you can do, but I want to say I am so sorry you have to put up with that!

I am wondering why your husband hasn't kicked him out? My older stepbrother did the same things when I was growing up, partying all night outside mine and my sisters bedroom window in the yard, we would have to pick up the beer cans and our dishes from all over the yard in the morning, having drugs, strangers and sex in the house, stealing stuff, etc etc and my parents had him kicked out, but they both were in agreeance. Eventually he just matured and grew up, realized his wrongs and apologized and we are all good now.

But I hope you can get through to your husband that his son is coming between the two of you and that is not right. You should be his first priority. He should want you to be happy and safe. And with his son's behavior and having strangers in your house, you are neither! Best of luck! *virtual hug*

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He's a resident, so you need to evict him... But if your co owner husband doesn't want to, then you're not going to be able to.

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The problem is not your step son, its you, and your husband. Until that's solved you can't solve the step son problem. You stay, and live with it, or take your share, and leave.