Here is my situation... There is a girl in all of my classes, and we get along great. The other day she walked into the room and she asked me if I wanted to go on a double date with her on valentines day. I said yes. We both know the other couple very well, and vice versa. I am sure it will be a blast. I am wondering if this is just a friendly date, or if she is looking for something more than that. Part of me thinks she wants to be more than friends because A. she asked me out. And B. the date is on valentines day. The problem is that beginning akward stage. Every morning I am like hey, and she says hey back. I will crack a joke once in a while, and she laughs. But that is about all the communication we have had so far. The reason I think it is just a friendly date is because I have a shrek like figure. She is very beautiful, and doesn't seem like the type of girl that would want a shrek for a boyfriend. ANY advice would be helpful.

Thanks,

veryconfused331

Even Shrek had a girlfriend. Just have fun and make sure she does. The rest is your own worries, so take it for what it is, a fun time. High hopes make for a long fall, so relax, Shrek my friend and just see how it goes..

Yes, breath, and don't over think this. Go out, on a date, what ever it is, it is, what ever it isn't it isn't. So go with her and your friends, and play it cool. This will be a good time to get to know her better as a friend too.

Try not to worry, remember that even if you can't see why some one else would be interested in you, doesn't mean they can't see why.

Go out have fun and make more jokes, talk about every one's interests, Movies usually connect to most people. So have fun, and chill.

Peace and kindness.

P.S. As Yoda put it, “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” So don't be afraid to this or that, just be where you are right now.

I need to post my picture here someday, not prince charming by any means and you may be surprised at the dates I get.

But a date is first and always just that a date, no one needs to go too far and fast in ideas but let things go and see how it works out