How do I get my 21 year old to move out!
My 21 year old step son moved in 7 months ago. My husband found him after not seeing him for almost 20 years. He is rude, disrespectful, lazy, and I'm ready to loose it. He works about 10 hours a week as a busser at a restaurant and spends the rest of his day/night on the computer, or watching T.V. I've told him he needs to move and his response to that is "we'll see about that", "I'm not going anywhere and you'll just have to live with it" or " i'm not going anywhere you can leave" I've been married to my husband for 15 years and we own a home together. We have other children and it is affecting them as well. When I try to talk to my husband about this he gets angry and says he will deal with it his way... which is kissing his butt and allowing him to swear and call me names in front of my other children. He brings things into my home that are unacceptable and sees no problem with it. He says he is an adult and can do what he wants... well... then get your own place! My husband works 60 hours a week and is not home much so I am left dealing with him on my own.