Originally Posted by
DoulaLC
What works for some at that age is to tell him they are sleeping. He will understand a larger vocabulary than he can speak. If you are comfortable with the idea, you can also try alternatives for him to find comfort with....special cuddly toy, blanket, small pillow, etc.. There is also letting him fuss a bit....pat him, tell him it is time to sleep, go only as far as the door, whatever you are comfortable with. Take it slow....start with dropping one session for several days, then another, and so on. You may or may not want to keep the bedtime feed as it can be comforting for you both and is often the hardest to end.
It will take time and consistency on your part....and won't be easy, but it will get better.