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In your opinion, do popular guys often like the really popular outgoing girls that like every guy in the grade has already dated, or do they often like the ones that are a little more out of the way, but sometimes just like them secretly because they are afraid if they talk to a less popular girl, it'll ruin their reputation or something or are just scared to? And do you think a lot of them like mysterious girls that they kind of have to chase or the ones that they can get easily?
Why do you want to know??
Omg I am sick of these dating questions
LOL!
You know it depends! Punks like to date any girl!!!
Any girl stupid enough is for the bait!!
If the popular guy is immature or affected by what others think he will go with whoever his buddies say is hot, if that only includes the popular girls then that is who he will date.
It sounds like you are in middle school. Most kids aren't mature enough to make up their own minds about who to date at this age, everything has to be approved by their peer group. It's more difficult for a popular person to have a mind of there own at this age because they have a lot of people telling them to do this and that.
If the popular guy is well grounded and mature for his age, he will do what he likes. This comes from good upbringing and a lot of love in the family. Kids who don't have good parents will look for approval from their peers and are more likely to do what their friends say.
One thing is true of all boys, if you make the first move there is a 70% chance he will say yes. Boys are shy at this age, even the popular ones; and it makes it so much easier if there is no drama and the girl is direct and simply asks him out on a date, without his buddies around.
What's the worst that can happen, he will say no? Middle school kids go through boyfriends and girlfriends by the week or month, so what if he says no; move on to someone else. But he could say yes, and you would be thrilled; at least for a little while.
Good luck.
Though, I agree with some of what the others wrote, I really don't.
We do not know any thing about this guy, nor what your deffinition of popular outgoing such and such is. So we know nothing for this. All the above are is comments or at very best assumptions based on generalizations. That's not who we are, that is who people who don't know us see. You see what I'm saying?
That is a very dangerous game to play at, making assumptions, for it often leads one astray. You know him, and yourself, the situation, and how the "cards" interact with one another. Trust, yourself, Love yourself, find yourself first. Because if you generalise yourself like any of the girls above, I question weather you know much of yourself at all? Those are more often and not maskes people wear to protect themselves, or to feel better, or simply to hid and so on.
Again, why do you want to know?
Peace and kindness be with you.
I agree with TexasParent, if he is mature and brave, he will go with who he wants. If he isn't, he will go with who will make him popular.
Lol I can't believe this hierarchy actually exists in schools. I thought this "popularity contest" stuff was just on TV.
I have only one point to make - Boycott this stupid order that these clowns have beset upon your school. Seriously... this popularity crap is such nonsense it is ridiculous.
What would aliens think if they compared a bunch of insecure high school kids, poncing around trying to look good with someone brilliant like Mozart, or Nikola Tesla?
Maybe I'm the odd one out, but damn I'm 16 and I see through these people - join the club and don't participate in their childish gimmicks.
Now I'm assuming you're not one of those popular girls - so realise that you're special!
Good looking girls are to a penny, decency is the only thing that lasts.
Take care,
-Xm8
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Wow, then you must have been out of school for quite sometime then! ;)
Oh yeah, hierarchy exists in schools... lol a lot more then a lion pack!
The sad part is mostly what the hierarchy is based on.
lol I wish I had been hahaQuote:
Wow, then you must have been out of school for quite sometime then!
Well, I'm not a psychologist but I have a theory. I think these "popular" people have inferiority complexes. They make fun of other people and put them down to feel good. They insulate themselves with other "popular" people to feel like they're something special, as if they're elite or something of the likes.Quote:
the sad part is mostly what the hierarchy is based on.
When you look it, thinking outside of the box, it really looks pathetic. At the end of the day, those "popular" kids have nothing except their misery and they eat themselves alive.
Just think of them as victims i.e. their parents not giving them enough attention, or having been bullied in the past. However, whether they be victims or not, they are still spiteful and hurtful, so ignore them - that's what I would do in your place.
A real guy with a heart will give his heart to a girl that is special, not to a girl that is so common to find (like a good looking girl).
Guys who only go out with good looking girls are mostly air-heads. Don't get me wrong of course there are decent women who are good looking, but not all good looking women are decent.
Unfortunately the majority of both guys and girls tend to chose looks over sentiments - and that's what makes the ones who don't special.
Think wisely and take care,
-Xm8
Actually, its mostly about drugs, sex and alcohol, but I guess that stuff too.
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