Landlord not returning full deposit
Hi
I need help please. I moved in an apartment in LA and after my six-month lease up, I stayed there with month to month basic. Then we have to leave out of state for about 6 weeks for an family urgent matter. We gave her(the landlord) 30 days notice and left country on Nov 17th. We gave her our forwarding address so that she can send us our deposit back. She work through the premises and said everything was Ok. I asked my friend to check the new address mail box to see if she has sent deposit back.
We came back to the States on 27th of following month and received a voice mail saying that she lost our forwarding address which she wrote down on move-out checklist. My questing are
1."Landlords are bound by law in California to at least provide you with an itemized statement of any withheld securities within 3 weeks of your vacancy" does it mean 3 week after Nov 17th or 3 week by the end of Nov?
2. how is the law stands if a landlord just called you and said she lost your forwarding address?
3. Then on the first week of Jan, She said she found our address and told us she has sent it which we never received it. Then one week later, she ask us to come in her office to pick up the check but only less than half of what we have deposited for. She said she found some roaches and have to clean up and change carpet to hard wood floor. We stayed there about 11 months and the carpet is in the good condition. She said take the money or go to the court. I just felt bad faith in her and her not mentioning the intention to minus damages when she called us a month ago.
Thanks.