Need help...
Would like to know the outcome of love affairs... my friend is in one and is having a hard time with it, but she is married with children and so is he. How long do affairs of the heart last. Can they last, if they are happy with it. Would they ever end up together. Needing advise from other in the same situation.

They end in misery, broken marriages, kids with emotional and trust problems (I mean, it's kind of hard to hide it from your kids after a while that you're meeting "Uncle Bob" in the bedroom every now and then).

They end with trust problems for EVERYONE, regardless how it works out. If they both stay with their spouses, their spouses are going to have a hard time trusting them for a long time. If they break up their marriages to be with each other---well, if he'd cheat on his FIRST wife, what makes her think he wouldn't cheat on HER?

Finally--they're stupid. Either fix your marriage or get out, but don't play this limbo game. You will get caught, and you will be outcast for it.

I can't really add anything but simply say Synnen has summed it all up in one post. They are negative all the way around