When I accused my husband of having emotinal affair with his co-worker he denied it. But I heard his conversation with her that I will take you to the office where I will be transferred.he also said that he didn't sleep with her.am I right in my side?

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Originally Posted by laali

when i accused my husband of having emotinal affair with his co-worker he denied it. but i heard his conversation with her that i will take u to the office where i will be transferred.he also said that he didn't sleep with her.am i right in my side?

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Right about what? Right about accusing him? It would appear you have some sort of proof of something - question is what?

And if he is, then what do you plan to do? Continuing to accuse him will make him secretive and defensive.

I think we need a little bit of background story before we can tell who is right. All I got is that your husband is changing offices and he wants to take this woman with him. Maybe she's a great worker and he doesn't want to lose her. But also, maybe he is having an emotional affair. In my mind, an emotional affair is just as bad if not worse than a physical one. If my husband were to just "leave me" emotionally I don't know what I would do. I wouldn't be able to go on. He's my best friend. If you are worried then all you can do is talk to him. If he blows you off give him an ultimatum. He either opens up and talks about it or you leave. Put a scare into him. Maybe then he will realize just how serious his actions are and just how serious you are about them. Also make sure he knows how much you love and care for him. Sometimes when you are together for a while you tend to drop the "i love you's" and the " i miss you's" and the calls in the middle of the day to say hi and the dinners out and the sexy rendezvous's on the back porch in the summer time. Make sure he knows how special he is to you. Once you bring him back emotionally then he will realize what a jerk he was being and how much he really does love you.