So I recently started dating a girl who is 2 years younger than I am. Before now she had told me that she had been with about 5 guys previously before we started dating however before I asked her out she said that she was late on her period. I helped her through it and this past Monday or Tuesday ( can't remember) she got her period. A day later she told me that she thought she needed the morning after pill because some guy tried to pull down her pants and somehow masturbated on or near her vagina. I was very suspicious of this because why would a guy want to have sex with a girl who is on her period number 1 and number 2 she told me that he said "i thought you wanted this" so this leads me to believe she led him on. The next day after a brief fight she was over at my house for about 5 hours and did not go to the bathroom once (I assumed she would to change a tampon or something... ) and then last night I was at her house and proceeded to finger her... no blood.

Here are my questions

1) is it possible she was lying about her period completely? I know that they can last 2-3 days sometimes but damn that was like lightning.

2) if she is lying is it to get attention from me?

3) is there a possibility that she's just a virgin?

I'm sorry this post is so sporadic I've been thinking about it for a while now and I needed to ask for advice.

Whether she's a virgin or not, I could not tell you. But I think she is lying about her strange stories. Why she is doing that, who knows. But the things she is telling you make no sense.

Yes I agree with Nike1. What she has been saying makes no sense at all. And from experience of abuse if she said that some guy pulled down her pants and released on her like that you would think that she would put up a fight or do something. So most likely she is lying to you.

I doubt that she is trying to get your attention most girls are like that they don't just do that to get attention they do it to feel the adrenaline rush. And if that is not the case here then she is just playing you and you need to get out of that relationship.

Some people are just compulsive liars. They just have to lie so keep that in mind and than decide what your going do about it, stay or live. But regardless of what you decide I would confront her about everything you posted.

As far as her being a virgin, only she knows and only doctor can honestly tell whether she's a virgin by an examination.

Aw hun. I'm sorry she's lying to you.. but maybe she's a complisive liar. Like, she can't help but lie. One of my friends is doing a simmiar thing, she's lying about her period. I know she is because her mom told my mom and then my mom told me.. and her sister and my sister know too because I told them. And then she was over at my house to day and I said "you promise you'd tell me if u got ur period" and she said "Yeah! of course! you're my best friend!" and then we pinky promised and did out secret promise jump-squeal thing. So I'm really p.i.s.s.e.d at her right now. I'm sorry for spammig your question, I just needed to rant .__.