Affair with a colleague who's got a girlfriend
Hi, Im a 28 year old girl who recently met a male colleague 5 years older. He wasn't really my type until my other colleagues began teasing us at work because we seem to be getting really close to each other. We sit next to each other and are really enjoying each other's company. I find myself lately getting attracted to him but the big problem is - he has a girlfriend of 3 years. One time we went out alone and talked about our lives. I could tell that he liked me too. I would ask him about his girlfriend and he would confess that he still goes out with his girlfriend. He knows Im free at the moment and I know in my heart that I could easily fall prey to the special attention that he's giving me. I really like this guy, he's so mature, affectionate, and caring. He asked me to send him sms through a special fone number that's exclusive to us because his girlfriend has access to the fone that he usually uses. I can't believe I would let myself act like a mistress having a secret affair with him. We're enjoying each other a lot. How do I tell if he's really interested in me? I know he has a girlfriend but I don't think he loves his girlfriend that much. Should I continue with our affair? Its somehow interfering with work because he's seated next to me and gets to talk with me everyday.