My daughter left home to leave with boyfriend the minute she turned 21
She was going to college. She met this 23 years old guy in a cruise in the summer of 2007. In the fall she left home to leave with him in a different state. My wife and I were heartbroken. We did not know where she was. After a couple of days , I tracked her down, met her she did not want to come home. She had no car, money. I had an encounter with the boyfriend. There was nothing I could do. For 3 months boyfriend support her. I must indicate that while she was living with us, she had a nice home, cell phone, a car and a good family and A + gpa in college and needed only one semester to graduate. She found a job and had to take a bus, my wife and I brought her car that we paid for to make her a little easy.there was no much comunication. She kept going to school but could not continue. Months went by and had to take several trips to see her. Nothing was accomplished. Last December, I went to her apt and took the boyfriend out for dinner and negotiate with him to influence my daughter to come home at least for one semester to finish her school and perhaps after that she can go back. My daughter is now home and began her last semester in College. However she has changed, she is not the same person when she lived with us . The boyfriend is a total looser, no job now, no education, and has a criminal record when he was a teenager. As a father is difficult to have a relationship with him. We are continuing paying for her cell phone and car insurance. She does not open to us like she is blocked, no symptoms of abuse
Any comments please