I have been married for almost 17 years now. I am coming up on the 17th anniversary next month. My husband and I enjoy sex and have tried a variety of things. Any sugestions that will make the 17th a night to remember?

Why not dress like a trashy woman and go to a bar and have your husband pick you up. Wear fishnet stockings, the whole shebang. Spend the night at a Sybaris type motel.

Whatever you decide, don't stay at home! :)

Have fun, :)

Fur handcuffs and body paints are never a bad idea. But dress up is always fun.

LOL... the bar thing is out of the question, he is pastor of a church!

You could rent a room (as a surprise)and have a wonderful bottle of champagne iced and ready to go.Try that new KY jelly for his and her.

Get a new sexy teddy and get a makeover,spend some cash on yourself and go all out.It will make you feel sexier and who knows what could happen then?

Have you ever asked if he has any sexual fantasies?

Me and my fiancé brought some sex games from the sex shop. Some are fun and some aren't.

Also, sometimes I make-up a coupon book. Each coupon is different and he can only use them once. We actually get the idea from a sex coupon book that we brought from the sex shop but it was corny to us so we make-up our own. I write things such as striptease @ 11pm, free bath rub down(I wash him from head to toe), and a lot of other graphic things I write but he likes it and he writes his coupon book for me too.

Also, we do role play once in a while and it's fun too.