Dated a guy, fell in and out of love... moved away... met a new guy, fell in love, never out, but still moved away. Back in fact. To guy number 1... had a baby.

Still talk to guy number 2, but promised guy number 1 that I will try to work things out with him... (for the baby mostly)

I am still in love with 2. being my main problem. But he lives in another state right now, and nothing is going to, or can happen at the moment anyway.
And 1, is a very good man, and wonderful father, and I care about him deeply. And respect him. It isn't respectful of me to hold myself back, because I have feelings for someone else. 1 loves me very much, always has... I am just confused, and lonely.:confused:

My mother and grandmother gave me this advice years ago and I find it most appropriate today:

Marry the guy who's crazy about you.

Your solution is simple, work with baby daddy for the good of the child, and do what you want, date who you want.