Not invited to best friend's wedding - not sure how to handle it
My best friend of almost 15 years recently became engaged. We have been there for each other through many ups and downs. She was invited to and attended my small destination wedding (10 people invited) four years ago. Over the last year and a half we have grown apart somewhat as I have relocated to England. However, we remain in contact via emails and phone calls. We have discussed her wedding plans several times. She sent me an email telling me she was engaged with the details of the proposal. I let her know how excited I was and mentioned I was thinking about wedding gifts. Her immediate email response was she would be married in Vegas with her parents and his parents in attendance since "the parents wanted to be there and they wanted them there". She added that she hoped her brother and his sister would not attend since they would have to pay for it and it would keep the guest list short. I sent a follow up email wishing her a happy new year and tried to clarify that only immediate family was invited. She has sent another email, but has not addressed it at all. Not sure how to take this or even if I should send a gift.