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  • Jan 21, 2009, 08:14 PM
    xoxobaby46
    Friend Problems
    Okay I have a best friend named camsiha. We have neen friends sience now 2nd grade. We ar now in 5th. Butt there is one problem. We always get into fights, and I always say srry when she starts it. She is the cause for out friendship. I am a little scared because I tried to break out friendship BTU she would always start rumors aabout me. And we are now friends but I don't want to be her friend anymore. She now thinks she is all that. She tells me how to live my life, who to date, when I can date, who ihang out wit(ONLY HER)what I eat and a lot more things. I just really want it to stop. She has been doing this sience frickin 2nd grade and I never evn realized it till my boyfriend now told me. He and she doesn't get aong well and she told me to break up with him but I truly LOVE him ad I am tired of breaking up with my boyfriends because of her. She also says after my boyfriend now I can't have any till I'm n middle. I just really am having a hard time. I don't know ifi can live any longer havng her telli me what to do, say or what to wear. She thinks se is my mother when I have parents right beside my side. And I really want to end this buti dk who to. If I go up to her she will cr or tell da teacher. ANd the worst part is that I sit next to her in class in EVERYTHING.Can anyone please helpppp?
  • Jan 21, 2009, 09:03 PM
    Rachel005
    When I was back in elementary I had a friend named Danielle and she would do the same thing to me.
    She also had me steel things from a book fair for her and I got caught! And she made me lie and tell them that it was my idea and that she had nothing to do with it. It sucked cause I listened. I let her run my life I was like her pet or something I even went behind her back and had a "secret friend" named amara but that was pathetic and wrong. I just wasn't strong and outspoken enough to do anything about it.
    But if I could go back now and stand up for myself I would. Just go up to the teacher and ask to be moved and honestly who cares what camsiha thinks when you get moved what will she do about it. Let her cry. Then when you ask the teacher to move the teacher will know the situation you're in. don't let her run your life. Standing up for yourself will make you stronger.
  • Jan 21, 2009, 09:30 PM
    talaniman

    Learn to tell her NO, and let her cry, but stick to your own mind.

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