I am getting a lot of mixed signals and not sure what to think. First of all my boyfriend is not much of a "talker." Sometimes it can be like pulling teeth to get him to open up, especially when it involves talking about what we are feeling. We went to Cabo together last month and we had a great time, enjoyed eachother's company, he was so thoughtful and went out of his way to pamper me. It is so weird because I get mixed signals. For example, he quite often offers to do things for me as a gesture of kindness. Like a backrub, he offered to take my car in to get the oil changed... But he hardly ever calls or texts me. It is always me initiating contact. When we are together I get mixed signals too... sometimes he is super affectionate and other times I wonder if he even knows I am in the room. Any advice would be much appreciated.

Have you talked to him about this?

I try and he just says nothing is wrong.