Well its plain and simple as this... I went with my ex about a year ago and when we broke up my life totally changed.. he started going with this senior girl who is mad ugly and didn't care for him at all. I was so mad at him and what he did I didn't talk to him for a good 2 months but it felt as if something was missing so we started messing around again on the phone every night and together after school people told me to take it slow and to respect him and his girl and even when I tried I was still hard... he did things that hurt so bad but I never saw it I only saw the love I had for him. And today as og 1-20-09 I am still madly and love with him but he has so many other females that claim they like him he hardly relizes wats and front of his face.. he tells me he loves me but every time I ask if we will ever go back out he tells me he has to get things strate wit dese females.. man its so much deeper but that's the basis I don know what to do about this situation someone help...

Signed: CONFUSED:eek:

If these other girls are so important to him then you deserve a lot better, tell him exactly how you feel and lay down some ground rules, tell him your not waiting forever you've got your own life to live and if he doesn't respect that then he ain't worth it, good luck I hope you get it sorted.

It seems like you care about him more than he does about you, why?

If he can't provide what you need and wants to play the field then let him. It's never good to try to be with someone that is taken because than you becomes the other girl and you shouldn't want to share nor be that other girl.

You need to leave this girl alone and don't worry about his life, you've your own life to live, right? Staying stuck on him will only cause you a lot of drama down the road. There are other guys besides him and if you continue to hang around him your only be setting yourself up emotionally.

Remember you can't change nor make someone be with you. If they don't want you than move on and don't settle. Look at the person for what they are because no matter what they say to actions speak louder than words and your eyes don't lie. That's why we have our 5 senses so put it to use.