Found out why he acts the way he does.
Okay so yesterday I posted a topic about likeing this guy (jay) and trying to figure out why he's always wanting to hang out with me but showing very little signs that he's interested. Well it's because of his ex-gf. He told me a little about her, how they had been together for years but she was "too much drama" for him blah blah. But I don't think he can officially let go. Not that it could matter but he has her as his number one on his myspace and he's written tons of blogs about their relationship in the past, not to mention she's beautiful I can see why he could be stuck on her. But it seems like she's not all that into him anymore she only sees him as a friend (even though she hangs out with his whole family... ugh) but since he's in the marines so he's stationed like 5 minutes away from me so we tend to hang out a lot. Only huge problem is he's leaving in 3 months for japan but he'll be back here after 7 months. Should I tell him how I feel? Or just keep my feelings to myself?