Hello
I am stuck in such a compilicated situation and I need a honest answer for it.
10 years ago I had a lesbian relationship with my sister in law. It happened when I was in bosnia and sis- in law was staying with us as my brother was struggling in germany. After 4 years my brothers struggle was over and he called my sis -in law back to germany. Over 4 years I too left to germany for higher education. I wanted that relationship back as it was so hard to forget about her and she used to be constantly be on my mind. Since we inherit bosnian culture where, lesbian was a big shame. She had 2 sons which grew up almost 10 years of age. I too got married and had a daughter 2 years. My problem is that I am unable to forget her and in spite of being married I keep having sexual feelings about her. (if I was lesbian then other girls would have attracted me too, but it never happens).My sis in law never wants this relationship as she is happy in her marriage and kids and doesn't want it to be affected in anyway. I am trying since last 8 years to forget her, but I cant. What's the best advice for me