Ok here goes... I like a guy very much and last weekend he picked me up and we spent the entire night just cruising around until like 4am. He gives me very little signs of attraction like when we went to eat he constantly stared into my eyes and as I was putting on my lip gloss he stared at my lips so obviously! He also paid for dinner as well which I totally didn't expect since we're hangin out as "just friends". And he never ever says no to me no matter what I ask he's definintely a "Yes Man" lol. But whenever I flirt with him, over the phone or myspace or texting whatever, he changes the subject or gets awkwardly silent and never really flirts back (he's only flirted with me like 2wice). He seems shy at times then he's really open and fun. It's confusing the heck out of me! What should I do? I'm really into him I get unbelieveable butterflies just thinking of him but I don't want to humiliate myself and put me out there only to be shot down. Help? Lol

The best thing to do is wait for him to make a move for you. Let him know that you like him and then sit back and see if he responds back.

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Originally Posted by Sbabii90

Ok here goes...I like a guy very much and last weekend he picked me up and we spent the entire night just cruising around until like 4am. He gives me very little signs of attraction like when we went to eat he constantly stared into my eyes and as I was putting on my lip gloss he stared at my lips so obviously! He also paid for dinner as well which I totally didn't expect since we're hangin out as "just friends". And he never ever says no to me no matter what I ask he's definintely a "Yes Man" lol. But whenever I flirt with him, over the phone or myspace or texting whatever, he changes the subject or gets awkwardly silent and never really flirts back (he's only flirted with me like 2wice). He seems shy at times then he's really open and fun. It's confusing the heck out of me! What should I do? I'm really into him I get unbelieveable butterflies just thinking of him but I don't want to humiliate myself and put me out there only to be shot down. Help?! lol

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I think he is shy and waiting for you to start!!

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Originally Posted by Sbabii90

Ok here goes...I like a guy very much and last weekend he picked me up and we spent the entire night just cruising around until like 4am. He gives me very little signs of attraction like when we went to eat he constantly stared into my eyes and as I was putting on my lip gloss he stared at my lips so obviously! He also paid for dinner as well which I totally didn't expect since we're hangin out as "just friends". And he never ever says no to me no matter what I ask he's definintely a "Yes Man" lol. But whenever I flirt with him, over the phone or myspace or texting whatever, he changes the subject or gets awkwardly silent and never really flirts back (he's only flirted with me like 2wice). He seems shy at times then he's really open and fun. It's confusing the heck out of me! What should I do? I'm really into him I get unbelieveable butterflies just thinking of him but I don't want to humiliate myself and put me out there only to be shot down. Help?! lol

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he is probobly just shy and he is more then likely thinking well if I put myself out their she might turn me down if one day when you 2 are alone and you just tell him.. for example say I really like you you know that?. and see what he says if he says I like you to their you go but if he says I'm not feeling the same or su=omething like that then you will know but don't come riht out with it pull him aside and start talking about a random memory of you and him and tell him

Ha! I was thinking the same! Because sometimes we'll go days without speaking at all until I break the ice then I can't get him to stop talking lol. But I just have a feeling he may NOT like me I always had the idea that if a guy is interested, he talks to you all the time and tries to get to know you and he just keeps it short n' sweet. That's what throws me off. OH but I guess I should mention one time my seatbelt was stuck and he reached over me to fix it and his face was so close to mine I could kiss him... but I was nervous and my head was turned away from his lol ughhh

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ha! I was thinking the same! Because sometimes we'll go days without speaking at all until I break the ice then i can't get him to stop talking lol. But i just have a feeling he may NOT like me i always had the idea that if a guy is interested, he talks to you all the time and tries to get to know you and he just keeps it short n' sweet. Thats what throws me off. OH but i guess i should mention one time my seatbelt was stuck and he reached over me to fix it and his face was so close to mine i could kiss him...but i was nervous and my head was turned away from his lol ughhh

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I hate to be negative but it seems to me that when a guy is interested he lets you know. Even if he is shy they do something to let you know. If you are getting a vibe that he may not like you that may be the case, for whatever reason. It also seems to me that you have let him know (you flirt with him) how you feel and he has not responded in the way you'd like. I would wait for him to make a move and if he doesn't, move on.

You know what I think you're right. I've never had a guy that liked me but never made it known. He doesn't exactly catch certain clues I throw at him but just today he was like "youre my ace boon coon" which is a little saying he called his ex-gf... iono I think I'm just going to lay low for a bit, even though its going to hurt me to do it.

Well he's definitely interested.. you guys are just playing the little game of who is going to show it first... I suggest that u guys just take it slow and let the nature take its course... in the end.. u guys will know each other pretty well and u'll be able to make moves on each other freely... plus.. a little more straight forwardness would go a long way..