I have a boyfriend named Brian. We have been going out for 2 months now. I am 12 years old and he is only 11. I don't care what the age is, I just care if we love each other and if it can work out. Well He always says that he wants to be I my class, he wants to hang out, he wants to dance with me at the boys and girls club dances, and wants to sit next to me in a lot of stuff. But it just feels like that he loves my BEST friend ore then me. Because whenever we do three wa they will always talk and I don't even say nothing. I just listen to what tey are saying. I feel like an invisable ghost dating someone who forgots aout me. I really do love him and he knows that, buti don't know if he loves me? He says I love you to me, and I say it back. I just don't know.. Any answers I can have?

Don't be jealous of your friends talking, that's not a bad thing, but why a 3 way? Just you and him is enough.

Omg.. kindergarten... LOL

It sounds like he is pretty interested. Nice job! I'm 13, and yet to have a guy ask me out, or express that he likes me(unless you count the school nerd... uggg).

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Originally Posted by confusedgirlplz

It sounds like he is pretty interested. Nice job! I'm 13, and yet to have a guy ask me out, or express that he likes me(unless you count the school nerd... uggg).

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Yea this guy is the person you really want because he is my everythign and I'm in love with him so mch. And its hard to leave the place he is at. We have been together for along time and like I don't know I feel so speacial because I have him so I guess I am really in love

If its love what are you supposed to do about it??

I guess there is one thing you do need to care about: do you guys really know what love is?

Well I don't think love is a matter at all in your situation... but the guy is definitely interested in you. If you don't like him talking to your friend during a 3 way conversation juts stop talking to them both on the phone at the same time.

Hey. I understand Just talk to them. I'm sure that the reason that he talks to your best friend is because you won't talk.

All You Need To Do Is To Speak Up

Talking on the phone can be awkward at your age, As Chrissy said stop talking 3 way on the phone because you may be encouraging a relationship between them if he feels more comfortable talking to her on the phone.
It sounds like he may have more interest and possibly more in common with your friend... but not much you can do about it if it goes that way,
Just be the best friend for him you can be go places, hang out, dance, let him see qualities about you that interest him.