Ive been going out with a girl for about six months. She spends all her time with her friends and never wants to come over to my house or spend any time with me. Whenever I ask her if she wants to do something she's always got some work she needs to do or some excuse, so we never do anything together. On the other hand she expects me to jump every time she wants me to go over to her house, or go somewhere with her. Im getting pretty tired of it. What do you think?

Dear maglintock
I think that your girlfriend is not interereted on you.

When she expects you to jump for her, don't do it! She is treating you as a thing of convenience whenever she wants it. Do that for a while and see what happens. Best wishes.

Ok I let her know about it, and we talked. She didn't want to finish it, and Ive got enough memories of the good stuff to make it worth working on. I told her that if she can't make time for us to spend time together, then there was no point in carrying on. In the end we both decided that we wanted to keep on going and she would make more time for me. She was upset by it so I suppose that means she cares, I hope this works out. Thanks for the replies peeps.

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Originally Posted by MaGlintock

Ive been going out with a girl for about six months. She spends all her time with her friends and never wants to come over to my house or spend any time with me. Whenever I ask her if she wants to do something she's always got some work she needs to do or some excuse, so we never do anything together. On the other hand she expects me to jump everytime she wants me to go over to her house, or go somewhere with her. Im getting pretty tired of it. What do you think?

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When she asks you to come over say no! And if you do it for about a week or 2 and she ask what's up? Then tel her look why should I go everywhere you want to go and do everything you want me to do but you do nothing for me! It really seems like she is not interested in you I'm sorry you need to end it