Alrite so I've been dating this girl for 4 months, I know this is not a lot but lets say I was pocessive and was very shy, but I did try my best and it was my first relationship, we're both 15 and in grade 10 high school, I'm a nerd but w/e, she liked me, at least I thought she did.

One day over MSN she broke up with me and I was like , I tried my best to convince her that I've changed and I was sorry. She wouldn't believe a word I said, I was very sorry and a few days before the break up I finally was abit less shy. I was very sorry and tried to convince her that I rely have changed but she didn't believe me :(.

After the break-up she wouldn't even say a word to me except on msn and even then she gave me one word answers. She was my first love and I know this is abit sad but it was the first time I actually thought I was in love with a girl.

Tell me what to do to get her to stop ignoring me , I rely do love her and I've changed but she wudn't even let me show her that I've changed.

Welcome to the real world man. This kind of stuff happens everyday. Chances are you were just in puppy love. Everything was perfect, nothing ever went wrong, and you were on cloud 9. Believe me, more of those girls will come around. Breakups hurt but it is a part of life. Don't chase someone who doesn't want you. It only makes you hurt more. Not something you need

This girl doesn't want to be bother so move on and let go. Life goes on! You can't make someone talk to you nor be with you.

This was your first relationship but there would be others. Sometimes you never wine up with the first person you was with anyway.

You live and you learn so I hope you learned that to be possive and know that it okay to have a life outside of the relationship. Don't let a relationship consume your whole life.

Don't send her any texts, emails, or any other form of communication. She is now your ex and your don't owe each other anything.

So my ex broke up with me about a week ago, we've been datin abou 4 months. She says she hates me but she says sexual things to me on msn all the time, I think she's messing with my head. It makes me feel cling to that strand of hope. How do I get her to stop or how can I get her back?

Stop talking to her on msn, or where ever else you talk to her on.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Stop talking to her on msn, or where ever else you talk to her on.

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I can't though, I still like her...

Leave her alone, like she wants you to.

That's the problem. You obviously want her to keep doing this because you still like her and it makes you "cling to that strand of hope." If you don't actually want to get her to stop, don't bother looking for advice.

NItEMArE129: sorry can't rep you (just did ;)) right on! And well said.


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If you want to cling to that strand of hope, and if you're not looking for advice on how to make her stop... why ask?

Because if you posted here hoping we'd tell you to continue the chatting... well sorry to say dude; you picked the wrong crowd!

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how do I get her to stop or how can I get her back?

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Cut all contact, forget getting her back. She messes with your head because you let her. (kind of wimpy, guy, sorry)

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I can't though, I still like her...

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How can you like someone who plays with your head?

Its your fault for letting her!!

Yeah, sorry to say that this is all apart of life. People get together, date, have relationships and sometimes they end... abruptly.

Besides you're 15... you'll have other chances at gfs, love, relationships etc.

Do her and yourself a favor and leave her alone like she's asked and move on! No matter how painful it might sound

Cut all lines of communication, simple.

It ends all forms of confusion and pain, eventually.

I agree.

Just STOP associating with her in every aspect, chatting, text whatever.

CUT THE TIES! Do you realize that she is playing with your head then making fun of you behind your back for it.

STOP BEING A NANCY BOY! Move on! :mad:

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I agree.

Just STOP associating with her in every aspect, chatting, text whatever.

CUT THE TIES! Do you realize that she is playing with your head then making fun of you behind your back for it.

STOP BEING A NANCY BOY! Move on! :mad:

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I can't, she's the first person who I went out with, and I have no idea why she even talks dirty with me :S is so darn confusin... I want her back so you guys tell me how to do so

I am confused- do you have two posts? This one and another one about her ignoring you?

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i am confused- do you have two posts? this one and another one about her ignoring you?

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She's ignoring me in real life but talking dirty with me on msn

Ah right- well bugger it mate- she is playing with your head!
She is not being nice to you, or respecting you nor does she really cares for you- She is being v immature and probably is enjoying all the drama!- think about it - would you treat someone like that if you cared or love- NO.

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i am confused- do you have two posts? this one and another one about her ignoring you?

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Their both the same post I'm a noob at this sorry

Seriously, grow some ____.


In all seriousness, you need to realize that she isn't good for you, AT ALL. Why do you want to settle for someone that disrespects you.
Are you afraid to be alone?

How old are you?

Hey look,
You need to just go and think well- bottom line is the more your in contact with her- the more she will mess with you and break your heart.

So the nicest thing you can do for yourself- is ignore her- be kind to YOU now and takecare of yourself.