Why is she uncomfortable, she broke it off with me?
I met her at a coffee shop where I was hanging out and I have many friends there. She broke up with me because I relapsed, other than that things were great-so she says. According to her I was her soul mate, best friend, best lover and all that. But, because I drank (but I did quit) we can't be together. I was really hurt and wanted to make it up to her. Well, at a couple of unsuccessful attempts at being friends, I just said screw it. I still go into the same place to hang out whether she works or not. Now she asks me not to go there when she is working-it makes her uncomfortable. I guess I don't understand why SHE is uncomfortable. I am not doing anything wrong Is this a request I need to respect, or should I just continue to move on and do what I have been? Isn't this her problem? Its only been about 6 weeks since it ended.
Why does she freak out when she sees me?
Perhaps I am just clue less here. When she did break up with me we hung out now and then trying to be friends. We both still had strong feelings for each other Of course I wanted to repair things. Anyway, I just gave up on that. Now, she can't even be civil towards me. She freaks out when she sees me. Is this normal? So when I do see her-I avoid her, no eye contact or nothing.