Do I have to let him take a paternity test?
I'm in one complicated, messed up situation.
I was dating a guy for about 2 years, who has 2 kids already. I ended up getting pregnant & he suggested I get an abortion. There is no way I could ever do this! He said he understood and he hoped I was ready to get married because he didn't want another child out of wedlock and so on. Well, the mother of his other kids found out I was pregnant and flipped. Apparently they were together the whole time me & him were and he lied to me and her both. The two of them just recently got married and have tried their best to make my life a living hell. They have tried to turn a lot of my friends on me and they talk bad about me. When I don't feel like I'm the bad person here, HE IS!! I haven't talked to him in a few months. Just the other day he called and said he wanted to know when we could do a paternity test... After a lot of thought - I really don't want to have to deal with him for the next 18 years of my life. I think the two of them would tell my child I'm a bad mother. And honestly, I wouldn't trust them with him. My question is - Do I have to let him take a paternity test? I don't care about the money for child support. I don't want to have to deal with him! And I don't think he really wants to be in the child's life. I think if I told him how I felt then he would definitely want a test done, just to spite me.:confused: