She's an amazing person, but I don't feel sexual chemistry.
About a month and a half ago I met this amazing girl. She really is one of the best women I've met in years. She's attractive, thoughtful, sweet, genuine and has a great heart/mind - pretty much what any guy would want in a female.
Now what's up:
I do find her attractive, but the few times we've had sex was a complete disappointment. I hate to say it, but it was pretty much the worst experience I've ever had with someone and every time I just wanted to get it over with. Now, I don't want to even be physical with her. I don't know what it is, it's like I was just turned off completely and now I just want to be her friend.
I've had bad sex in the past, but that was with girls I didn't really care about so it really didn't matter, because I figured there was no emotional connection. I really like this girl and want to keep her in my life, but this is really a hard thing for me to let go of and not care about. I really want to feel that passion and desire with her. I feel that if I ignore it and continue to deny it I may wind up in a relationship where I'll be wanting other people.
What the heck do I do? Or What should I say to her? Is she better as a friend? She's so damn nice, how do I tell her without sounding like a complete jerk?
Thanks for reading.