I was just curious after reading another post. Is it common for women to have an attraction to other women? How many women have had an urge to be with another woman?

Hi Adam.. I think a lot of woman do.. I am a gay woman.. and I get hit on or flirted with by staight woman all of the time.. we call it playing... they want to play with the idea.. but.. are genetically striaght... does this help.. hope so...

I have always had a huge desire to be with another woman. It's a comfort factor of a body I understand, knowing that I am with someone who completely understands my body.

And a woman's body has so many beautiful areas. It's just a fantasy.

She is right.. it is a fantasy.. the difference is when you want to take it a step further.. But.. I think a lot of woman fantasize about the experience..

Ok, I see. I was just wanting to know what other women thought about the idea, or how many women fantasize about it. A woman's body is so beautiful. That must be why so many more women are attracted to same sex than guys are to guys huh? I wouldn't ever imagine being with another guy.

True Adam.. none of my straight male friends are interested in other sexual male relationships. They understand it.. but would never cross that line. Also.. Woman have more open girlfriendships.. more affectionate.. and close.. that also spawns some of the fantasy I think.

For women, sex is an emotional experience.

While for most men, anything could essentially get them off.

When you are talking about the better of the emotional available gender, women can relate better to women, which enhanses the fantasy or desire for the experience. It would essentially be a very different kind of sex.

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Originally Posted by Justwantfair

I have always had a huge desire to be with another woman. It's a comfort factor of a body I understand, knowing that I am with someone who completely understands my body.

And a woman's body has so many beautiful areas. It's just a fantasy.

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How come you never act on your fantasy?

Just.. it's true.. I had great sex with my ex-husband... but sex with my girlfriend of 8 years is both emotional and physical.. and we have a great time before and after... talking and reacting.. all of it. I could be with a man physically again and enjoy it.. but I doubt I ever will.

Nothing personal Adam... LOL

I am in a committed relationship.

Why I haven't in the past, the nerves previously mentioned in another post and I have never found the appropriate way of finding a willing partner.

I have kissed many women, but never taken it past a make out session or two.

Just... How old are you if you don't mind me asking... are you amrried... have you ever followed through?

Would your boyfriend be open to any new ideas?

Wow.. Synnen closed the other thread?? I wonder why?

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Originally Posted by susananne

Nothing personal Adam...LOL

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Wow..Synnen closed the other thread????? I wonder why??

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Yea, I seen that. I think somebody made them mad. Haha.

Yea, you could always bring it up to your boyfriend and see if he is even up to just watching. I know I wouln't pass that up ever.

It has to be respectful.. and understood that it is meant with love and a gift.. ground rules are important.. so nobody's feelings are hurt. Most men would like it.. but he has to know it is about you exploring your sexuality.. not him.

Just... would your boyfriend be interested in this.. or is this something you would rather do on your own. Again.. what is your age.. if you don't mind.

Yea, that is true. If he thinks it is about him, he may be very upset about it. Maybe just talk about it, and see if he would sit the first one out. I'm sorry, Without realizing it, I put you on display. I didn't mean to do that, but if you want to talk about it, we are here!