How do you stop loving someone and let go?
I can't believe I am even asking this question, because I already know the answer. I am just hoping that if I see your responses in writing, somehow my heart might get it..
I have been with this man on and off for over 5 years... (more off, I think). I love him terribly. He has 3 daughters whom I loved also. Much drama happened during our relationship... things I can't discuss here concerning the children and their Grandfather (enough said) and the big drama issues of him always on porn sites, talking to other women, on the dateline, keeping his foot in the door of every x he ever had and in the new ones he would meet trolling. I would find this stuff and be devastated. He wouldn't care if I got upset and moved out... he would blow me off for a few weeks (while he is with the new girl) then start contacting me again. When we would break up he would bad mouth me to his family saying I am insecure and jealous, and them never knowing the truth of what was going on. We have been broken up for a year. He still tries to contact me periodically and of course... I try to blow him off, but I usually end up responding. When I finally respond, he says something mean... I am crazy to love this man or even give him the time of day. I have tried everything to get him out of my head but it doesn't work... now for the question... how do you stop loving someone?