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  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:33 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Boyfriend trouble
    Hi I been with boyfriend for just over a year. And his ex has come back on the scene and I knew he still had feeling for her, but she lives in Ellesmere and we live in Wrexham. He doesn't know what to do, he loves me to pieces, and I love him to pieces. I can give him everything he wants. This all happened before Christmas. I was just wandering how do I find out who he has chosen, as he still comes round, and says he loves me, but he has cut back on how much he texts me, please help
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:51 AM
    juhi2011

    Why don't you be straightforward and directly ask him...
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:53 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Cause I don't want to push him away
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:54 AM
    Krs
    Yes.. speak to him...
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:56 AM
    Krs
    Why would u push him away if u just asked him directly?
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:56 AM
    LOUNTASH
    From a lad point of view how would I tell if he had chosen me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:57 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Cause I may upset him
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:57 AM
    Krs
    Why are u unsure whether he has chosen you?
  • Jan 12, 2009, 03:58 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Cause he doesn't tx me much
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:01 AM
    juhi2011

    This way you are not pushing him away but only stopping the problems which can arise for you in coming future. Its better to face the reality than to close your eys and sit.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:01 AM
    LOUNTASH

    How can I tell if he chosen me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:02 AM
    LOUNTASH
    But I have had fortune told and been told that we will end up getting married
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:06 AM
    LOUNTASH

    How would I tell if he didn't love me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:12 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Does he love me
    How would I tell if he didn't truly mean it when he tells me he love me
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:13 AM
    Krs
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by LOUNTASH View Post
    but i have had fortune told and been told that we will end up getting married

    WHat?
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:14 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Welll has he chosed me for fortune teller to tell me we will get married
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:16 AM
    Krs
    I wouldn't base anything on a fortune tellers reading...
    Doesn't sound like you are confident in this relationship
    Communication is the key!
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:18 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Welll I do believe fortune tellers as it always comes true I am confident I trust and love him and I no he feels same about me but just not confident he has left her in the past
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:23 AM
    juhi2011
    When you are saying you are neot confident about his past then it clearly means that you lack confidence in him. Better don’t get things mixed and let anyone play with your emotions in future. What is the harm in asking, if he really loves you he will give the answer and would not mind anything.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 04:28 AM
    LOUNTASH

    I am confident in him well I no he loves me as he has posted on face book for everyone to see before he deleted his account

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