Is this phase I'm going through normal ?
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Hello everyone
It has been about 50 days that I didn't have contact with my girlfriend at all. She dumped me when I was alone immigrant in another country, and there were no friends or family to help me pass this break up. I have been with her for 3 years. I gave her all my love and I was getting prepared to get engaged with her very soon(and she was the one that wanted us to get engaged and I accepted because I loved her).she seemed happy about everything.I really didn't notice anything strange in her behaviour that could make me doubt at her.she didn't have to wait too much to see me again. I would have come back to my country very soon. I was very surprised!! Really I could never imagine this to happen because I never did anything to hurt her.I couldn't imagine she could do this to me anytime, but it happened and everyday I'm getting used more and more to this idea,that she wasn't meant to be with me.this love story ended up with these words "i dont love you anymore, i like another guy". It was hard very hard for me to accept these words. They were like a knife in my heart and every time I remember them I start trembling from anger. I can't hold my anger. I continued hitting the gym harder and harder every single day. It makes me feel better and make me relax for some hours. But still when the morning comes again, as soon as I wake up and open my eyes I feel overloaded with anger.she could have dumped me for any other reason but not for another guy. I feel like I want to kill her.dumping me for another guy, really offended my personality.sometimes I think:how can a person be so heartless? if she didn't love me why did she have to wait 3 years to say it to me?in this time I could have found a girl that really loved me. Do these dumpers have to pass things so easy, just break a heart and leave like nothing happened? No way I think. What do you think.is this phase I'm going through normal? will it pass? I don't want to do anything bad but I can see that I can't really manage my anger. Just the idea makes me nervous, imagine when ill see her.what do you recommend me to do?