My b-friend has had problems ejaculating, he can stay erect, that's not the problem, but he can't seem to "finish it off." He won't go limp... but he just can't seem to "get there." This doesn't happen every time, but 2-3 times out of 5. He is 35 years old... and sometimes we have been drinking alcohol... can you tell me what could cause this?

Hi um most of the time the problem may be that your drinking, after drinking alcohol expecialy hard liquor tends to cost a man to have problems during ejaculation... well not really problems but he can tend to go a very long time an still don't "" expecialy if that person body is use to drinking he mite not drink be for you have sex an may not "" all night.

Well I think he may be using pills or something to stay erect for longer time. I made a mistake and used pills on my first night with my wife... next morning my wife couldn't walk.. :((

Hi there, are emotional animals, and there's hundreds of things that could be causing this. I guess it's Brewers droop! The beer will make him go for longer, but then he might start to get tired, and lose his drive. Usually this makes him soft. But your partner remains hard. A suggestion, try not having sex for a week or two. Then approach him unexpectedly, and do it. It could just be he's over sexed. Good luck...
PS sex doesn't have to finish with orgasm.

Any pill will effect your sex drive. But I had the best experience when I took 4 Hydrocodeine or Hydrocodone pills. It was weird because I cummed 3 times during sex. I'm male.. and the first time I cummed was within 35 minutes during sex and waited about 10-15 minutes before we had sex again. So we had sex 3 times and I achieved giving her a multiple orgasm. But the feeling I felt was unbelievable and words cannot describe it! Has anyone heard of hydrocodeine or hydrocodone. It's a little white pill and I think it has 2 7's but I don't remember too well. I know it's codiene.. but omgosh! It was unbelievable and my friend told me to try this 25 minutes prior to getting your freak on :)

I don't know the side effects of the pill but with any pill I guess it can lead to poor ejaculation or decrease your sex drive. Not sure!

Also, how long will you be erect if you take one viagra pill? I sometimes have trouble maintaining an erection so I was curious to see how many viagra pills a man would need.

Hi,
Drinking? Sometimes?
Enough alcohol can stop your husband from having an orgasm.
If he can't relax without alcohol, then there are other problems.
If he isn't drinking all the time when this happens, has he considered seeing a doctor?
He can get some good professional advice from a doctor.
Best of luck,
fredg

Another oldie,started in April... Shucks, I thought this would get interesting, but think someone snuck some Viagra that day. Oh, well...


:D

Who's the one that snuck the viagra?

I would say amber's b/f... But I was not there, so can't be sure.

That's what I was thinking. If he can't seem to get there and he won't go limp.. then it has to be the Viagra! What else would it be?

Noticed you changed your picture, looks better, healthier.


As far as the ejactulation issue I'd check out a medical site specializing in this and other male organ related issues.

My picture? No that's just a model :) but don't I wish I were as beautiful and white as she was.. oh yes I do!

Oh, sorry. Mine is a pic of my 'main man' Larry who is 14 cat years old and acts more like a lapdog. I just love him..

Do you have more pictures of the cat? I'd love to see :)

:rolleyes: Ok, Ambers b/friend maynot be using anything to cause this PROBLEM.
and A PROBLEM it is see I have the same Problem,
I do drink Liqour but I have tried going a week and a half without Sex and not Drinking for a Month but I still have a problem Getting there it stays hard: I have all the sensations of ejaculation the Throb ,the don't with it sensations but no Sperm..
I'm 39 and it started randomly when I was 36 it has caused me to be Accused of outside relations and such but I had not had relations outside of my relationship at that time.. I thought well it's the girl I'm just not excited by her anymore But that's not it..
New Girls and still no sperm.. I can materbate (which takes forever) and finely get there but not through Sex. Why?
let me think maybe its Lower back problems and Pains that's when mine started when I RE-INJURED My Back.. so guys it maybe Pain stopping your Getting there with all the mess.:eek: