New Baby, seems fiancé only wants part time family
Hello,
<my Fiancé and I had a baby in Sept he is 4 months old and going through this phase of not wanting to sleep anywhere but in mommy's arms so all day while trying to cook supper, do dishes and laundry and taking care of my fiance's crazy dog who wakes baby up, I'm trying to get baby to sleep in his crib, and not nurse him to sleep. So I've got a screaming baby in my ear most of the day because he won't sleep and I'm up sometimes ever hour for anywhere up to an hour and a half trying to get him to go back to sleep.
SO my fiancé instead of staying home on the weekends goes out fishing even when I tell him I don't want him to go he goes part days, But it's the weekend he should be spending some time with his Family I can't leave the baby with him because he doesn't know him and he can't put him down to sleep. When he gets invited to parties or concerts he sais I'm going not there's this party or concert do you want to go? My mom and I recently discovered that's the way his father and mother did things His dad would go out and his mom would stay home. I'm not the stay at home type I love fishing, and horses I haven't gone riding more than once in over a year! But when I try to get him to do that he won't he says I've got plans and goes fishing the other day he said he was going to go crazy if he didn't get to go fishing... I said how do you think I feel I've been stuck in this house for 4 months and he just doesn't get it at all. I might as well be a single mother. I just want My family together I don't want to have to rely on other people I want to be able to rely on my fiancé or this isn't going to work . I don't know how to tell him he just doesn't get it. I could go on and on I don't know how to get through to him do I have to take the baby and go in order for him to understand this?