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  • Jan 10, 2009, 04:14 AM
    eva84
    Afraid that boyfriend will leave me
    He doen't know I did bad in my last semester. I am worried that he would leave me if he knows that.
  • Jan 10, 2009, 04:35 AM
    Eelarch

    By did bad what do you mean by that?

    You failed the grades or you cheated on him?
  • Jan 10, 2009, 06:27 AM
    stevetcg

    If you did poorly in school and he left you for that, you should consider yourself lucky. That's not the kind of guy that sticks around. What if you got hurt? Would he stick around through that? Sick?

    If you cheated on him then you should be worried that he is going to leave you. Because he should.
  • Jan 10, 2009, 06:30 AM
    ja77

    Hi can you make your post more clear please so we can see if we may help you ?

    Can you give more detail regards why you feel this way and what has happened that was bad.

    Thanks
  • Jan 10, 2009, 07:54 AM
    kctiger

    This sounds like complete BS. I am getting really tired of people coming on here and being demoralized by others!

    "He doesn't know I did bad this semester..." Is he your father? Tell me exactly why you should be worried about his reaction to this, as school is your problem and your goal, not his (unless he is paying).

    My reaction...

    Me: "Hey babe. I did pretty bad this semester in school. I am pretty upset about it."

    Her: "Well, that is unacceptable. I am out of here. God, you are such an idiot."

    Me: "Well................bye."
  • Jan 10, 2009, 09:39 AM
    Eelarch
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    This sounds like complete BS. I am getting really tired of people coming on here and being demoralized by others!

    "He doesn't know I did bad this semester..." Is he your father? Tell me exactly why you should be worried about his reaction to this, as school is your problem and your goal, not his (unless he is paying).

    My reaction...

    Me: "Hey babe. I did pretty bad this semester in school. I am pretty upset about it."

    Her: "Well, that is unacceptable. I am out of here. God, you are such an idiot."

    Me: "Well................bye."


    If your grades did badly maybe he can help you if he's good at a subject? Say maths get him to just go over the topics with you and test you etc
  • Jan 10, 2009, 10:34 AM
    liz28

    Boyfriends or girlfriends don't leave each other when the other needs help. Instead they stand by your side and help you come up with a soluation to your problem. In this case you need to focus on your area/s of studies that your lacking in and study more. Maybe even go your teacher and ask for help or a tutor or even your boyfriend could help.

    People only leave each other when the relationship isn't right which might be cheating, abuse, etc.

    If he leaves you due to your grades then you shouldn't be wasting your time with him.

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