Okay so I totally like this boy and he totally likes me and the other night, when he asked me out I had to say no. I'm only 13 and everybody else in my grade dates but the guy I like hates my best friends because they hate him! I'm so sad, but it goes away when he gives me the secretive smile, and my bffs might ditch me if I say yes, what should I do?

If they ditch you, they're not your friends. Talk to them about it and explain that fact. Real friends are loyal to you, no matter what. And when it comes to dating, they're only supposed to offer advice and not do anything. It's not their problem unless it becomes abusive or dangerous.