I had intercourse with my girlfriend for the first time, she has had no sex previously as we gave ourselves to each other and it all went well; except that during intercourse, I noticed that her vagina was really.. excuse me, but 'tight' and it hurt both of us at first but then had no problem; now, a few days have passed, 2 to be exact, and at the head of my penis there is some white stuff on it, come to realize that its peeling.. and also it gives me the itch.. this was just noticed today and wanted to see if I can get any idea of why this would happen... any help would be appreciated.. and I know, I will be going to doctor.. but the soonest appt I got is until next Monday =(

Could be an allergic reaction to the type of condom you used or any sort of lubricant.Could be an allergic reaction to her soap if she douched beforehand ,the douche may have caused a reaction.

It sounds more like a friction sore.

Yes, get it checked out.

It's not an STD unless your girl lied and said she was a virgin, but it's still important that you get it checked out.

Did you use condoms?

It could be a latex allergy. There are latex free condoms

The doctors opinion is best though.

Its always better to see a doctor and then you will know for the future why the problem occurred,so you can avoid what sounds like a very uncomfortable problem.

I did not use any condoms..

Honesty presumed

If there isn't a lot of pealing my best guess would be you have a friction sore and easy there young fella... and the fix is k&y lube

If there is a lot of pealing it could be you're allergic to something she used that you're unaware of... fix to this is she stops using it

There is doctor patient confidentiality and I can tell you first hand doctors see much much worse

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Originally Posted by jay_bastida

i did not use any condoms..

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Not a wise thing... you might know where you have been, there is no way of knowing where she has however beyond any doubt.

I hope at least she was at least on the pill, that's zero protection for STD's.

The word isn't "tight" no woman is that "tight" the issue is she was insufficiently aroused to self lubriate well enough for intercourse.

Any abnormality occurring to you should be checked out by a doctor. In this particular circumstance of yours you should go to a PLANNED PARENTHOOD immediately or URGENT CARE. Many women lie about their sexual encounters. Be aware and next time and every time after that BE PROTECTED. You could possibly have an STD or a severe allergic reactions. Either way don't waiti too long you don't want to cause severe or irreversible damage to your jewels.

If your penis doesn't slide in easily, you have to stop intercourse... no stroking. The woman isn't ready. :)

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Originally Posted by jay_bastida

I had intercourse with my gf for the first time, she has had no sex previously as we gave ourselves to each other and it all went well; except that during intercourse, i noticed that her vagina was really.. excuse me, but 'tight' and it hurt both of us at first but then had no problem; now, a few days have passed, 2 to be exact, and at the head of my penis there is some white stuff on it, come to realize that its peeling.. and also it gives me the itch.. this was just noticed today and wanted to see if i can get any idea of why this would happen... any help would be appreciated.. and i know, i will be going to doctor.. but the soonest appt i got is until next monday =(

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Dude, either she lied to you about waiting and gave you an STD or you had sex with someone else that gave you one. There are more "innocent" non-STD related answers, but STD is most likely. Either way, get yourself to a doctor or your local health department.

USE A CONDOM YOU IDIOT! Jeez, that being said... get to the doc. Could be an allergic reaction or an infection she passed to you... and again USE A CONDOM YOU IDIOT!