I finished with a guy who had let me down numerous occasions for another guy. Now I'm pregnant and the new guy and I have split . Problem is I'm yearning for the guy I finished with in the first place. Would it be wise for me to go searching for him now, even now I'm carrying another mdns child's??

Don't worry about either one, worry about the child you are carrying! That is your number one priority right now, to give birth to a healthy baby. The guys shouldn't be an issue, until the baby is born, then work out custody with the father if applicable.

The reasons you "finished with" the first guy are still there, aren't they? Why would you want to go back to something that let you down?

Nope, care for your own health and prepare for your new baby. Don't look back - or go back with the "first guy."

Work on being a good mother who brings a healthy child into a loving environment, and leave the relationships alone. Don't forget some child support.