Ive fallen in love with a girl who's engaged.
K I need all the input I can get that would be great thanks.
So how the story goes is I met my friends sister at work. She has been engaged for 5 years were both 19 yrs old. At first I didn't think nothing of it but as time went by we started to talk more and more about anything and everything at work. Then months past by I started to like her a lot. We chilled outside of work to see how it would be and let me tell you it was fun. I told her how I felt and she smiled and said she felt the same way. She tells me how her man treats her and how it takes to her breaking point for him to understand what she's trying to tell him. She would do so much for him but he doesn't care he just goes off and smokes weed with his buddies. After all the time I spent with her Ive really started to fall in love we kissed yes, in the back of my mind she is engaged but they aren't married. Its not how I want it to be because she has to go back to him in the end. And what we are both doing is wrong but if feels so right. I would love to be with this girl is there ever a chance for me? We talked to each other and came to a decision. I want her to chose for herself who she wants to be with. I told her that if you don't have those feelings for him like you use to then we can start slow and work from their. But if you want to try to work things out with him then be my guest, it hurts yes but you know ill be here for you to help you through. But I want to let her know I can be that guy, I don't want to be the guy standing on the sideline forever. I mean I treat her better than this other cat. I know 5 years is a very long time and your in that comfy zone but isn't it about time to break free from that strain? I don't know what to do now there is nothing I can do though if she wants to work things out with the other dude then all right. Any input would be appreciated I know truth hurts but hey ill take it all I am a big boy. I would right the whole story but I don't know if you want to hear it I just put the main facts.
Thanks everyone for listening!!