Hello. I am 14 and a softball player. I've asked my guy friends if they think abs are sexy. They usually say "depends who it's on." so, if your a guy could you tell me? Thanks ;)

From my experience if the girl is in good physical shape then it would be quite sexy for a girl to have abs.

Never ever the super abs. A slightly toned stomach is two-thumbs up :]

Just toned. No six pack is needed.

Toned is good... 6pac cuts is yuck...

The body builder who have obviously been on steroids... Guys don't find that sexy

But there's not enough testosterone in a 14 year old girl to get anything but toned or slightly defined.

Even military women don't get beyond toned or slightly defined

So in short yea flat stomach on a healthy girl most guys like

I've always liked athletic women.

To be honest, unless the girl is coming up to me in a sports bra where I can actually see her abs... no one is going to look there first.

First, they see your face, your hair, your teeth, your overall body, then they start talking to you.