First of all, hi, I'm 16 and allmost a half,and there's this girl.
Now, to start with the beginning so that everyone will understand what I'm saying, I met this girl when she first came to high school... I'm one year older and, ever since I've met her, I loved her.Everything about her, I like, every time I see her, I get those butterflyes in my stomach, but I try to stand up and don't make a fool of miself.Every time I see her, she's with her friends(Girls) and I only got to speak alone to her a few times, and I kind of understood that she's not "for me", alltho I like her even more.This didn't got me to give up though.But now, It's after the Christmass break, and my realtion with her is cold.Now it's half-way through the first week of school and I've only seen her once or twice, and never got to speak to her.Just by seeing her my day gets brighter, but not being able to talk to her is so hard..
I've tried to forget about her, but seeing her every day makes it really hard.Seeing my friends talking with so much ease with her and her girl friends makes it even harder..
I'm so confused now, because I've started talking to one of her girl friends and it has been going pretty well, but now that relation is cold too, we have't been talking for 2 weeks)
And I'm that kind of guy that's allways calm, and doesn't talk much, even with friends and family(I'm trying to improve my family relations) is strange, because the guys noticed that and find it really cool, but has no "charm" on the girls.But, I'm allso the guy that once you talk to for a minute or two, he opens up really quick, and sometimes sais thing that he might not wanted to say(I've come to find out that that's not a good thing to do when you're talking to someone you just met);I'm trying to control that too..
So sorry for the big post, but I'm trying to say this as clear as possible.. I need help.As soon as possible

Puppy love.
That's the first thing that comes to mind when I read this. Of course it is understandable that you think you're in love with her. It may last a while, but everyone has their infatuations. I know I've had my own. I don't exactly understand how your relationship got cold just because it's after Christmas break. If anything, it would have been better to try to hang out with her during Christmas break, so you two could get closer.

All you can really do right now is talk to her. I'm sure nothing actually happened and this is just a bit of a panic attack. Talk to her as if nothing happened, and after a little bit of small talk, ask her if anything is wrong. If there is something on her mind that's bothering her because you obviously feel like you've been cut off from her.

Good luck. Everyone has their first love.

Well, talking to her is hard, because I really got to catch her alone, which is really hard to do with a girl from where I come from.They kind of travel in packs like wolfs, and it's really hard to get her away from the rest of the group.I'll try though
Thanks a lot for the help

Ok so It's puppy love that I'm feeling for her..
How can I get rid of it? It turns my life upside down when this is happening to me..

Yeah it's the same everywhere. The only thing you can to do is to give it time. If you want to get rid of it, either just don't talk to her or hang out with her and her friends. Eventually the feeling will fade away. I've been in your situation before. Many times. Just let it happen. Eventually you'll realize that you're young, and this is going to happen many times. Just deal with, and you'll be fine. I guarantee it. About 2% of the people that date in high school last.

Good luck.

Been really helpful engee182.
Thanks a lot for the help

YO ROMANIUKE WHO IS THAT GIRL??
PAULA? OR?? :):confused::confused: