My boyfriend and I are waiting to have sex of any kind (oral, etc) till we get married. In the past, guys I have been with would get turned on and they would claim to hurt, because they couldn't "relieve" the hardness. I asked my current boyfriend, if he hurt, when this occurred. He said no. Is this normal? Why would some guys experience pain and not others?

I don't really get what you meant by your question but I will try my best to help...

Now I think you said that your ex said that there thingy hurts beacause you guys are doing any thing such as sex. It could be that they are lying just so they can do stuff with you get what I mean? They just wanted you to feel bad..

Now I think there is some truth in the hurting thing. If you always get an erection and don't umm do any thing about it over time I'm sure it will get sore. I think you have to umm do some thin alteast once in awhile. Guys are only human so that's why you don't hear too much about it hurting.

Nah dude I think she means blue balls and in that case if a guy gets hard and they don't nut! It hurts when it goes back down for every guy if your guy don't that mean he must jerk off when your not looking

I think I know what you are talking about (blue balls) before me and my boyfrind started doing anything he said that after awhile he started 2 hurt.

Hi, I agree with what's been said. I became single just over 9 months ago, and after moving into my new place, I spent all my time decorating and busying myself with the new place. One day I realised that I hadn't releaved myself for two weeks. Wow this must have been a record! So I decided to see if I could go the distance (40 days & 40 nights) just like the film.
The last 10 days were really hard (pardon the pun). I did get errect at times, and it took a while for Mr happy to go back to sleep if you know what I mean. It never hurt, but it did ache for a few minutes after. I think waiting until after marriage, is a very sweet and honest jesture. And boy it's worth it!
If you can do it!

I think your correct Lennox. Getting relief is what some people need. And should n't try to pressure a friend into anything to obtain there relief female or male.