Originally Posted by
Synnen
You may just be stressed with the new baby and the extra work it takes.
It's really hard to switch from "mommy" to "sexy" in the blink of an eye.
Is it possible for the two of you to, once a week, or once every couple weeks, get a babysitter and have a date overnight? You can find cheap things to do, but it's time spent together focusing on just the two of you, so that you can be more in "sexy" mood than in "mommy" mood.
I would also suggest that you talk to your doctor about it and have them check your hormone levels. Having a baby really messes with your hormones, and you may not have gotten back to "normal" yet--and you may need some medication to get back to normal!
Above all--communicate, communicate, communicate. Tell you husband what you just posted here, at a time when it's NOT an attempt at lovemaking. Let him know that it's not him, that you don't know what's wrong, and that you'd like to fix it---and I bet he does what he can to try to help you get there.