Gaining My Parents Trust Back
I am 18, a freshmen in college, and just recently my parents have given me a curfew for when I come home on breaks, a 10 o'clock curfew on weeknights and midnight on weekends! And here's the reason why - during the thanksgiving break they saw me talking to my ex boyfriend, who they hate, in the house, at 1 in the morning, after we saw each other at a friend's house. They said he was uninvited and that I should have told them that he was coming over, so they punished me when I came home for Christmas break, which was the 10 p.m. curfew, and the would not let me out for New Years. I was very upset, snuck out, and they caught me sneaking back in, drunk. Then, one night they let me go to a club, and one of my drinks was spiked - luckily nothing happened, I was with my friends and they took me home, but the next day I was extremely hung over, and my mom thought it was because I made a dumb decision.
Now, two things :
1) How on earth can I get my parents trust back when I am going to school, and they can not see how they can trust me?
2) Should I tell my mom that I did not drink on my own, and that my drink was spiked?
One thing you should know about my mother - before all of this happened I had a lot of freedom, and now, it's all taken away. But my feeling is that I am in college, and I am 18, and I am growing up, and the more she holds me down, the more I do not want to listen to her. Basically, shouldn't she just let me go? Why would I want to come home when I have a curfew, or when I can stay at my school with out a curfew? Or am I totally wrong here?