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  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:27 PM
    ericarenee
    Cheated on me
    Hello:]
    I'm 15 and has just gto into a relationship with a great guy michael.
    We've been dating for about a month and a half and I love him so much.
    I went away to Florida for two weeek with my granparents. And while there on his myspace was him kissing another girl on her myspace was them making out and stuff its disusting. And I asked him about it and he denied it. [ I believed him] the day after I got back on January 2 I got a message from her saying that she was his other girlfriend well was that they broke up a week ago and they had hung out christmas eve and new years and had sex and all this other sick it seriously grosses me out. Any help what to do?
  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:31 PM
    HistorianChick

    If you can learn this lesson at your age, you'll be a much stronger woman...

    Guys that cheat and lie are not worth your love.

    He cheated on you (you saw the pictures) and lied to you about it. Hon, you're too young to be dealing with this kind of boy.

    He's not good enough for you. Believe that. :)
  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:32 PM
    jjwoodhull
    Forget him and move on. You can not trust him. If you forgive him, he will do it again. I know it's hard when you are young and in love for the first time - but he is not the guy for you. The beginning will be sooooo hard, but then you will get over him. And you will meet someone new.
  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:33 PM
    kctiger

    You are really young, and have a lot to look forward too. I know this hurts, but the best thing you can do is leave him behind. Do not contact him or pay him any attention, ever again. You will get over this in no time, just avoid looking at MySapce again...

    I know it hurts, and I am sorry. There are a ton of guys, and girls, out there that do this kind of stuff. Have no fear, as he will get what is coming to him later in life. Karma sucks...

    For now, ignore him and leave him alone. Get out of MySpace and start to just hang out with your friends. It will get better with time. You will be fine!
  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:34 PM
    wolfgangqpublic

    You will move on too much bigger and better things. Michael actually isn't such a great guy, at least on this count.
  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:41 PM
    ylaira

    Called growing pains. Just take this as a learning experience. It's not you its just guys this age experiments sometimes sleeps around. Even if you are sincere to them, you can't expect eveyone to be the same. Fucos on yourself, your studies, and this guy thing can wait. Right person comes around, in a right time for the right reasons.
  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:47 PM
    Starbucks21

    Just remember this...

    You're too good for that crap and you can do much much better

    You deserve a gentleman that thinks the world of you and those don't cheat
  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:48 PM
    ericarenee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HistorianChick View Post
    If you can learn this lesson at your age, you'll be a much stronger woman....

    Guys that cheat and lie are not worth your love.

    He cheated on you (you saw the pictures) and lied to you about it. Hon, you're too young to be dealing with this kind of boy.

    He's not good enough for you. Believe that. :)

    Thanks sooo much. His mom even said that lol:D
  • Jan 6, 2009, 06:53 PM
    ericarenee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ericarenee View Post
    thanks sooo much. his mom even said that lol:D

    Thanks you are very sweet.:]
  • Jan 6, 2009, 11:52 PM
    talaniman

    How can you believe a guy, when you have pictures??

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