There is this guy that I work with, he's kind of handsome but not drop dead gorgeous
But there is something about him I really like. We've hung out outside of work numerous
Times. One night we had a little too much and did hook up. And we still talk definitely not
Anything awkward there.
And when he went away for the holidays he called me but he was drunk. And he said he needed to hear my voice to fall asleep. Regardless it was long distance.
But he's back now and I need to know how to get him to fall in love with me
And the problem is, about a 9 year age difference.

1. Does he like me or is he just playing head games cause he's hammered?
2. how do I get him to fall in love with me?

1) 9 year age diff is not a big deal anymore.. ignore that.

2) I would say no, he's not playing games... when u are drunk u are more likely to say what u are really thinking.

3) u can't make someone fall in love with u. it will happen if its supposed to. Just continue down the same road. Hang out.. talk.. try to go out on a few real dates.

Good luck!

Not everybody plays games or wastes emotion and time. When you start seeing someone that you work with it is best to reserve that for people that you really care about. <-- I would think anyway. The work relationship thing can be a source of trouble. My thoughts are this. He likes you and you need to not worry about getting him to like you by being someone or something else. Be yourself. In addition the relationship may not work out, but that doesn't mean that it's you or that he doesn't like you. Take it slow and be honest. You will feel better in the long run for not playing games.