mom doesn't like boyfriend.what to do!
I'm 19 turning 20 and I was with my boyfriend for a year and a half before we decided to call it quits. Our relationship was a little complicated. We met at college and didn't live too far from each other while being at home. My boyfriend always respected my parents but my mom just didn't like him. He comes from a very poor, dysfunctional family. He and I care about each other a lot just seemed to argue often while being at home.We had a lot of issues that we worked on but couldn't take it anymore and broke up. Now that we took some space and time we both feel we want to give it one more shot and take it VERY slow to see what we have left in us. The breakup was kind of bad for we are both bitter and he did something not right to me, but gave me reasoning and apologized. My mom tells me he's not going anywhere in life and she doent like him he didn't treat me right etc and if he comes here she won't even say hello and she doesn't want to hear about it.(screaming this at me if I may add) My familys approval means a lot to me, but it is my life and if I want to make the same mistake twice I can. I never went back to an ex boyfriend before but I really love this guy. I just want her to accept it if me and him try it again. He's done a lot of changing and I'm hoping somehow a miracle can happen and they can see it. Help =[
were going back to school in 2 weeks which is when we will probably try again, I'm thinking of just not telling them in case it does not work.. and if it is working out I have to figure out what to do... no violence occurred. We were best friends. Just butt heads a lot. Nothing that can't be fixed.