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  • Jan 1, 2009, 12:55 PM
    theeyesoftears
    How can I know?
    Am a girl of 23 years I meat a guy on net who is 24 and we have been talken for 3 months and more , we tried to meet at real many times but usually something stopped us . The problem that I think I ve loved him while he cares about me learn all ma appointments that I told from long time, but he says he need me as aclose friend and very close friend . But all of his acts never shows as a friend . I really want to know how can I know if he loves me and trying to hide or is that a close friend ship??
    And one thing more he is a very closely heart person, never like to show what he feels. Not even to his mom.

    Plzzzzzzzzzz help me . Cause I want to know wer am I?
  • Jan 1, 2009, 01:25 PM
    aszmhodeus

    First of all if you met him online only not real life how can you be certain that he really loves you? I don`t think love exists at that point.

    If you are very confident in you, and if the same is he, you should act now and meet in real life, don`t be afraid. You talked for 3 months over the internet, which is a good thing, you know each other now, you know what each should expect. Therefore no need to worry, you are not meeting a total stranger at all!

    Hope this helps, its my opinion.
  • Jan 1, 2009, 02:19 PM
    sully123

    How can you love someone who you never met? Three months is way too soon. You think you know this person, yes you know him from talking on the internet, but that is as far as it goes. When you meet someone in person, its completely different. Take it slow, its way too soon.
  • Jan 1, 2009, 02:28 PM
    Starbucks21

    Well I met my husband online but take him for his word. Meet him first and then go from there. If you might be reading more into it... But I wish you the best of luck.
  • Jan 1, 2009, 02:41 PM
    liz28

    If he says he want to be friends then be friends. I think you're getting too emotionally attach to this guy. Love can only comes with physically knowing someone and it still takes time.

    I don't understand if the two of you keep making plans to met than why your haven't yet? Control your feelings because your only going hurt yourself in the long run.
  • Jan 1, 2009, 02:54 PM
    Alty

    You've never met him, you've only talked to him online, I don't believe in love at no sight! ;)

    For all you know he could be an 80 year old man with nothing better to do but join internet sites and lie to young girls like you.

    It's time to get off your computer, go out and meet real people, that's where you'll find love.

    Good luck.
  • Jan 1, 2009, 07:28 PM
    talaniman

    You are no where until you stop getting carried away by your own feelings, for someone you haven't met, nor can figure out.

    That's not love, that's desperate.

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