My boyfriend can't ejaculate during sex.
Okay, this is my first post here. I hope someone here may have experienced this and can be of some help.
My boyfriend (42) and I (39) have been seeing each other for about 3 months. We have great sex. He regularly tells me it's the best he can remember. It's amazing for me too. (I think we're just a really good match sexually.) It's full of fire works and variety but our problem is that he never reaches ejaculation.
When I met him he had been out of a 4 year relationship for a few months. He says that toward the end of their relationship, he couldn't ejaculate with her either (although he previously could). He says he thought it was because they had been together for a long time and things were winding down.
He has no problem ejaculating when he is masturbating alone. He can even ejaculate when we mutually masterbate. But we can go quick or for hours and he can be very, very close to climax and not be able to finish. He says he thinks about how great it's going to be and how it's going to feel and then "loses it". I have encouraged him to see a doctor but he says he doesn't know how to "bring it up with his doc" and thinks the problem will eventually fix itself. He also says it's no big deal and he is still having the best sex of his life regardless.
I do not believe he has any sort of physical problem - otherwise he wouldn't be able to ejaculate during masturbation either. His last physical for his job was only a few months ago and he was deemed healthy.