I met this guy about 4 weeks ago. I went out with him twice and haven't kissed or anything. I am going out with him tonight and feel like I might want more than just a kiss.

Would he think I am a whore if I sleep with him?

With question like this I feel that only you deep down in yourself can answer this.

Are you really ready to take the relationship to the level of having sex?

Is this a relationship that you intend on having for a long period. I mean is it a quick jump or long running.

Also please don't forget the need for precaution in any sexual acts to keep yourself clean and also to remain safe.

He may not BUT most often when a couple has sex too soon they find out AFTER what the guy really is like. Right now you only have the image of him that he wants you to see. Later when he thinks he has you hook, line and sinker and the real him comes out you may regret it.

Well... Guys have like a mental-timer or something like that... B.T.W I have learned that stuff I know better.. So I say : If you two know each-other well enough for a step that big then go ahead but about that whore part at first he wouldn`t think that, but then again I have never met him so I don`t know exactly. But I do not recommend to take a step that big if you haven`t even made-out with him.. You don`t know exactly that is he the man you want for that.. Hope I helped out =)

Honestly, we have no way of knowing what he'll think. Some men would, some wouldn't, it all depends on a number of variables and circumstances. Whether you're ready or not is only something you can answer, but I get the sense that perhaps you're not quite ready to take that step yet.

I'm not sure how old you are, but there's nothing wrong with waiting and taking your time.. baby steps. Good luck!

I don't know what he will think, but sex on the third date will change the whole relationship.

At least let the ink dry on your divorce. Oh sorry, you aren't there. My bad.

Just because you have an itch to scratch, a stranger is hardly a good choice.

You sure aren't in love this soon so be very careful, just in case he will think your a loose whore.

But don't worry whether he knows you or not, he will still be glad to scratch your itch for you, but may not want to date anymore.

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Originally Posted by KertAllikvee

Well.....Guys have like a mental-timer or something like that... B.T.W I have learned that stuff I know better.. So I say : If you two know each-other well enough for a step that big then go ahead but

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4 weeks with 2 dates is really hard to claim you know each other well enough... some girls THINK they know a guy well enough after 3 months only to find out they only scratched the surface.

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Originally Posted by chicken4me

I met this guy about 4 weeks ago. I went out with him twice and haven't kissed or anything. I am going out with him tonight and feel like I might want more than just a kiss.

Would he think I am a whore if I sleep with him?

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Probably worse... whore takes $$, you don't...

I think it is too early. At four weeks you barely even know this guy. If you end up staying together you're most likely going to regret it and wish that you waited longer, so it was more special. But in the end it all comes down to how you feel about it. He might think you're a whore, no offence but I think he will and it might effect whether he wants to continue seeing you. That's just my opinion though.

It's never too soon for sex! Kidding...

If this is just a fling... go for it if you're ready. If you want to genuinely see where this 'relationship' can go than you may want to hang on for a bit longer. As previously stated... sex changes EVERYTHING... for better or worse.

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Originally Posted by lawanwadee

probably worse... whore takes $$, you don't................

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I did a rough calculation in the past and found that I spent more money on a relationship than what a prostitute on a regular basis would cost. Oy Vey!