basically my boyfriend Justin and i have been going out for quite a while

we are very close at heart but very far away in real life..he is in America and i am in London..before christmas we were texting and phoning each other and then one day i text a few days before christmas and he never text back..a few days after christmas i tried phoning and it just said its unavailable..and ever since i can't get in touch with him

im really worries because he means so much to me and i miss him a lot..we are so in love and i can't take us not being in touch for this long...i dont know what to do :(

Nikki.
Its your choice but being so far away is hard on a relationship, very few adults can do it themselves. What I would do is find someone you live close by to, that way your able to spend all the time in the world with them and not worry about them cheating on you or not returning you phone calls.

It's possible something happened to him. If you had been steadily texting and phoning each other and then all that suddenly stopped, it does give one reason to wonder. Or, did you two end a communication badly with a fight or angry words? If it's the first, that this is very sudden with no apparent reason, you must know his last name. Does he have a home phone that you could call, or perhaps you know the name of one of his friends?

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It's possible something happened to him. If you had been steadily texting and phoning each other and then all that suddenly stopped, it does give one reason to wonder. Or, did you two end a communication badly with a fight or angry words? If it's the first, that this is very sudden with no apparent reason, you must know his last name. Does he have a home phone that you could call, or perhaps you know the name of one of his friends?

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Its OK now.. after a few days he got on the internet again and told me his phone was dead and his computer had broken and we are OK.. actully.we are more than OK.. we are planning to meet next year and his saving up for my wedding ring for when we are older :)im so happy now.. but thank you for your answers :D

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nikki.
its your choice but being so far away is hard on a relationship, very few adults can do it themselves. what i would do is find someone you live close by to, that way your able to spend all the time in the world with them and not worry about them cheating on you or not returning you phone calls.

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1. I would never leave him for someone near to me 2. he got in touch in the end and we are happier than ever now and planning to meet next year then get married when we are older.

Thank you for your answer anyway :)

Sorry but.. long distance doesn't work... it's hard and painful... and if there's no hope for you to be close to each other in the near future.. it's a waste of your time.. trust me..