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What Should I Do?

Ok so my dad and my step-mother had been married over 10 years. And when I was about 14 years old I heard her on the phone and it sounded really suspect but hey I was only 14 so I let it go. So then a few years later my dad caught her cheating in a hotel room. Well now she's with the man that she was cheating with... which is fine, but she had a baby somewhere in that process of her cheating. My dad and ex step-mom had a DNA test done and it turns out that my dad indeed fathered this baby aka my little sister. But my ex step mom has been telling my little sister that she has two fathers and two families and that this other man and his family love her more. My sister is only 6 years old. I was on Facebook the other day and I ran across this picture of my little sister on someone else page calling her their sister. Because I think that this other man thinks that he is my sister's dad too. And my step mom was a gold digger so my sister gets double birthdays double Christmas' and she's being taught that life is like this. Should I write this person on Facebook and see what's up with this? Or do you think that will start drama that is not needed? Help

Woah, well id talk to your stepmom, maybe your dad too, does your dad know what's going on

Yeah he knows what's going on and my step-mother denies it all but when you ask the six year girl she will say I spent the night at my other daddy's house. Or... "my mommy said that my other daddy cares about me more than you guys." and it breaks my heart

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Originally Posted by love092489

Yeah he knows whats going on and my step-mother denies it all but when you ask the six year girl she will say I spent the night at my other daddy's house. Or..."my mommy said that my other daddy cares about me more than you guys." and it breaks my heart

Wow, she sounds spoiled already, that would break my heart too, have you thought of suing them, you know, for custidy

I don't think my dad wants to do that because he's a workaholic and he knows he couldn't be there like she deserves

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Originally Posted by love092489

I dont think my dad wants to do that because he's a workaholic and he knows he couldnt be there like she deserves

Well it isd his child, and if she's telling her that the other dude is her real dad, then I really think you should take the case to court, just imagine how f*ed up life would be, say, five years from now if you didn't take the case to court

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OK so you are in a little bit of a situration. What I would do is get this guy or girl to get talkng about your sister, ask him who he is, how does he now, if he starts getting too susipishus, don'ttalk to him, but if he nows something about you that only you now, talk to your dad, because this guy or girl could someone radom who just happen to now about your little sis, or he could be someone bad, after you talk to your dad talk to your step mom, she might not of told you about someone who is in that part of the family. Hope this helped. Good Luck.